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The First Dance | Modern Bride Trendsetter Award Winners

Nationwide premarital counseling, the ultimate premarital test and marriage preparation resources

The engagement ring symbolizes the end of your private dating relationship. We call those first moments of the proposal the "hours of bliss." because it's the beginning of the often exhausting, sometimes wonderful, always complicated world of marriage and in-laws. Weddings are exhausting because marriage can be exhausting. Read more on what wedding planning can teach you about married life.

This entire website is dedicated to on help you get the wedding and marriage you want! Example of what we cover:

We couldn't call ourselves The First Dance without addressing ways to think about your first dance song and help you manage the first dance in todays complex families. And even when it's done, you can still show your gratitude for people in your life by how you write your wedding thank you notes.

Nobody escapes wedding planning stress. Not even those who chose to elope! So welcome to The First Dance: Managing the People Stress of Wedding Planning.

A Special Welcome to:

Wedding Coordinators, Premarriage Educators, Wedding Vendors, Parents, Clergy, Officiants

 
Guest List
     

Wedding Budget

Guest List

Organizing

 

Wedding Stress

Premarital Counseling

Who Pays for the Wedding?

Can you AFFORD a small wedding?

What should you consider before setting your wedding date

Do you figure out the guest list or budget first? Common mistakes

Defending A Wedding in Bad Economic Times

When is it OK to splurge?

Wedding Vendor Quotes

Questions to Ask All Wedding Vendors

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Do you figure out the guest list or budget first? Common mistakes

Top Guest List Mistakes

What the Guest List Process Can Teach You About Marriage

Wedding Etiquette: Why it May Do More Harm than Good

What should you consider before setting your wedding date?

Why Do People Care about My Wedding Plans?

To invite kids or not?

Mistakes around "To Invite Children o not...

Why Won't People RSVP?

Invitation Etiquette

 

 

 

 

 

 

My Wedding Plan Your Starter Guide

Stress and Teamwork with Fiance

Wedding Priority Worksheet

Essential Questions to Ask All Wedding Vendors

Wedding Checklist

Wedding Checklist Landmines

Bridal Message Boards: Poster Beware

Wedding Etiquette: Why it May Do More Harm than Good

What should you consider before setting your wedding date?

Wedding Vendor Quotes

Why Do People Care about My Wedding Plans?

A Short History of Weddings

Wedding Registries: What "Stuff" Do You and Your Fiance Want and Need?

 

Why Do My Parents Care about My Wedding Plans?

Competition or Negativity with Friends and Family

Mistakes Inviting Friends

First Dance Etiquette in Todays Complex Families

Top TEN Ways to Create Fights with Parents

Top TEN Ways to Create Fights with the In-Laws

Wedding Stress with Siblings

Wedding Stress with Wedding Party

Help with Divorced Parents

Help with Divorced Parents Inviting New Relationship

Help with Parents Adding Extra Wedding Guests

Help with Overbearing Parents

We Have the Ultimate Premarital Test, a research-based premarital questionnaire (inventory) taken by over 2.5 MILLION couples

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A 12 hour self-guided premarital counseling program. Conversations to engage your relationship in a positive, non-threatening manner.

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Individual Premarital Counseling with a trained counselor.

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Bill Doherty, Elizabeth Doherty Thomas

Co-Founders of The First Dance, William J. Doherty, Ph.D. and daughter Elizabeth Doherty Thomas